Dating is an endless game, women are from venus, men are from mars therefore it’s sometimes hard to understand what men and women want from relationships. As women don’t come with manuals and men with user guides it’s always important to know how to decipher common behaviour of either sexes and knowing a few basic things to improve your dating life.
What men dislike in a woman
- Men are put off by a woman that drinks a lot of alcohol.
- Guys can’t stand it when a woman keeps mentioning her exes during a date, it puts them off completely.
- Men like to be in control so hate it when a woman acts too authoritative, shows too much power and acts rudely.
- A man can’t stand it when a woman’s mobile keeps ringing and she answers making him feel abandoned and unimportant.
- Blokes dislike ladies who speak about themselves all the time, it’s good to keep some mystery so they’ll feel there’s things for them to find out.
- Men are attracted mostly to women who act and look ladylike, so they are not impressed by women who have bad etiquette, bad posure and don’t have a feminine image.
- A man adores being intellectually stimulated so he gets irritated if his date doesn’t speak much, leaving him to do all the talking isn’t much of interest.
- Guys are not fond of a girl who doesn’t take compliments and puts herself down as it shows signs of low self esteem.
What women dislike in a man
- A woman likes receiving compliments so despises a man who isn’t attentive enough to compliment her on her dress or on something she’s done.
- Ladies don’t appreciate if a guy acts submissive or weak, they unconciously like to be guided and look for a strong shoulder to support them.
- Women have an anthipaty towards men who pretend they are something they’re not and this includes men who boast themselves too much on what they achieved or on their finances.
- A lad with bad breath or poor personal hygene is a scorn in a woman’s eye and can put someone off for life.
- Men can’t help eyeing a pretty woman if she passes by them, some girls accept this and are the first to make a comment about what a nice outfit the passer by has and make a joke about it. Meanwhile others can’t stand this as they feel less attractive in comparison.
Deciphering men’s behaviour
- A man that shows dominance and pride to lead you shows he’s interested, otherwise he wouldn’t care much.
- Many say that a man’s eye pupil will increase it’s size when he’s attracted to what he sees.
- Beware of guys scratching their ears, nose, head or neck while talking as it shows signs of insecurity, he either doesn’t mean what he’s saying or else he’s lying.
- Men who keep eye contact for too long show they are after more than just the emotional side of things. Read this as a sign of wanting to take it to the next level as men with feelings for you will be embarassed holding eye contact.
- When a man is avoiding serious conversations it shows he’s not interested in getting involved in sharing things but is only after the casual stuff.
- If a guy smiles with his eyes and mouth at you it means he’s prepared to give all his best in this relationship so go for it.
Interpreting women’s signals
- When you notice a woman making eye contact with you for more than a few seconds across the room, it’s a sign she’s intersted in you and would like to get to know you.
- Women express their affection by touch, when she gives you that occasional pat on the hand or casual stroke on the shoulder, subconsciously she’s testing you to see if you will give one back which she will understand as you too are into her.
- A woman who touches the glass edge with her finger indicates she’s sending a sexual message.
If you notice a girl licking her lips too often it usually means she wants you to kiss her.
- When a woman crosses her arms and stares back at you it’s a sign of hostility, it shows she either doesn’t agree with what you’re saying or else you cause her revulsion.
- If a girl stands with her body facing you or sits with shoulders, chest and head facing towards you, she likes you and is giving you her full attention.
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